netdev: add queue stat for alloc failures

Rx alloc failures are commonly counted by drivers.
Support reporting those via netdev-genl queue stats.

Acked-by: Stanislav Fomichev <sdf@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Amritha Nambiar <amritha.nambiar@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Xuan Zhuo <xuanzhuo@linux.alibaba.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240306195509.1502746-3-kuba@kernel.org
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>

Documentation/netlink/specs/netdev.yaml

@@ -328,6 +328,13 @@ attribute-sets:
         name: tx-bytes
         doc: Successfully sent bytes, see `tx-packets`.
         type: uint
+      -
+        name: rx-alloc-fail
+        doc: |
+          Number of times skb or buffer allocation failed on the Rx datapath.
+          Allocation failure may, or may not result in a packet drop, depending
+          on driver implementation and whether system recovers quickly.
+        type: uint
 
 operations:
   list: